Dudi abidesR&D notes · est. chill
R&D Manager · Tel Aviv-ish · Currently abiding

Take it easy.
Ship solid systems.

Hey, I'm Dudi — I run R&D teams and write field notes on calm leadership, architecture that holds together, and placing smart bets (especially with AI). Professional, practical, zero hustle.

12+
yrs building
30+
engineers led
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rugs tied together
Calm is a feature ✦Boring tech where it counts ✦Bold bets where it matters ✦No heroes, no burnout ✦The roadmap abides ✦Strike out ego, spare the team ✦Calm is a feature ✦Boring tech where it counts ✦Bold bets where it matters ✦No heroes, no burnout ✦The roadmap abides ✦Strike out ego, spare the team ✦

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Essays worth your coffee

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Craft & CultureOct 25, 2026· 5 min

From Scale to Scale: What Fixing a 2005 Espresso Machine Taught Me About AI Code Generation

A rusted 2005 espresso machine, a black-box office coffee maker, and the same dilemma AI coding assistants put in front of every engineer: operator or architect?

#AI#Architecture#Culture
ArchitectureMay 24, 2023· 7 min

Boosting Development Velocity: Adapting Software Architecture to Changing Team Dynamics

Software developers and software architects have, for a very long time, stood on opposite sides of the “whose is better” competition. They have completely different beliefs, with each vowing that…

#Architecture#Management#Teams
Calm LeadershipMar 15, 2023· 5 min

A Software Development Manager’s Guide To Beginner Mistakes

R&D managers, when first stepping into the role, tend to make the mistake of choosing one of two extreme management approaches. Each of these comes with its own set of challenges — and its own set of…

#Management#Leadership
DebuggingDec 31, 2025· 19 min

Rookout's Dudi Cohen — How To Live In The Debugging Moment

“The Production First Mindset” podcast episode which featured me as a guest.

#Debugging#Podcast#Leadership
▶ TalkTalksFeb 24, 2025· 4 min

Good Intentions, Bad Outcomes — in Go and Beyond

My Go Israel meetup talk (in Hebrew): how well-meaning design choices — in Go, in policy, in nature — keep producing the exact opposite of what we wanted.

#Talk#Go#Golang
Craft & CultureFeb 23, 2023· 3 min

5 Basic Steps To Implement The Technology Acceptance Model Of Usefulness In Your Development Organization

As engineering leaders, we all struggle to find the balance between creating cool technology and useable technology. Let’s be real. We all want to create cool things. It’s in our nature. But what’s…

#Management#Product

Pick your lane

Four lanes. No gutters, unless you want them.

Lane 0101

Calm Leadership

Hiring, 1:1s, feedback, and running teams that don't burn out.

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Lane 0202

Architecture that Abides

Boring tech, clear boundaries, systems that hold together.

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Lane 0303

R&D Bets & AI

Prototyping fast, killing kindly, bringing research to prod.

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Craft & Culture

Code review, on-call without dread, docs people read.

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The abide manifesto

Good R&D is 20% brilliance,
80% not spilling your drink.

  • ✦ Protect focus like production. Calendar is infrastructure.
  • ✦ Write the doc. Name the decider. Set the date.
  • ✦ Celebrate the gutter ball of the week — learning out loud.
Read the full manifesto

“Yeah, well — plans change, outages happen. The team that stays chill ships anyway.”

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